Popularity

To be popular is a trait we all admire to have and you can't lie every human being has wanted to be popular at some point in their lives even I ceaved it as well. 

It gave us a sense of belonging in the world because it seemed people liked us. The more people who liked us the more we felt loved and wanted not knowing that we were creating fake friends. 

Some seek popularity online through social media posts or videos like TikTok for example and most do succeed in gaining a lot of followers and views making themselves joyous. Popularity can be your friend online but it's in real life where things change. 

Online it's easy to ignore the haters but in real life it's a bit harder considering you have to face the people you know everyday. In real life you have to see those fake people everyday of your life and there's nothing you can do about it. 

Imagine oberhearing people talking about how terrible your videos or blogs are. How would you feel? Most importantly what would you do? 

I for one know my first action would be trying to change my feed in order to please them but in the end you can't please everyone it's in our nature to be judgmental. Now that's the old me, the attention seeking b*tch who craved to be loved or wanted. What I realised is that there's no point in trying to please everyone when you're just making yourself suffer. 

If you follow the little voices telling you to please everyone who are you really doing it for, them or you? If you answer them then what's the point of what you're doing because your feed should be based on what you want to share with the world not anyone else's idea, no just yours. 

So the next time you over here someone say they don't like what you do or how you act, ignore them. If whatever you're doing isn't hurting anyone then no one has any right to judge you not in the slightest. So those haters can go to hell because you're beautiful, smart and damn hell stronger then you think you are, you just need to love yourself a little more. 

And one day at a time you will discover that there is nothing wrong with you because you are absolute perfection. 

DD xx